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The Marriage Revival Collective

 

Your roadmap & community for transforming your marriage from living like roommates to a lifetime of adventure, genuine friendship and loving like soulmates.

I need this!

Stop googling “How do I know if this marriage can be saved?”

 

Do you & your partner feel like two roommates merely sharing the same space, but hardly interacting?

 

Maybe when you do interact, you feel like two business partners delegating tasks of: “house, money, kids”

 

You certainly don’t feel like lovers.

 

You dream of a marriage where you laugh over dinner, whisper “I love yous” on the pillow before you fall asleep, sneak in a kiss before the other heads out the door & adventure together on the weekends.

 

You''re the woman who excels at everything you attempt.  Excellence is your standard.  And you're not about to settle for a mediocre marriage that leaves a lot to be desired.

 

You want the spark back. 

You want your best friend back. 

You don't want to get divorced.

You have a beautiful family you've created. 

And you can’t stand the thought of breaking it apart.

You're not about to accept failure. 

 

But no matter how much you want your marriage to be the way it once felt…

 

You find yourself googling: “when do I know it’s time to leave”. 

 

You try to have conversations to reconnect, but your husband is not meeting your needs emotionally 

 

And the more you ask to be met emotionally, the more he withdraws and says he’s doing that and doesn’t know what else to do.

 

It only leaves you feeling more disconnected, so you stop trying…and you don’t know how to break this pattern. 

 

You’re feeling more distant as the days go on.

 

This was once your person.  “How did we get here?” “Is it too late to get our love back?”

 

What if I told you it’s possible to get the marriage you dream of back…

 

And actually better than it was before…

 

It IS possible. 

 

I’ve helped hundreds of couples go from feeling like roommates to loving like soulmates. 

 

You’re next.

I'm next!

Welcome to the Marriage Revival Collective.  

Your proven roadmap for transforming your marriage (yes it’s possible for you too) from the coexistence of living like roommates to a lifetime of adventure, genuine friendship and loving like soulmates. 

This is the program I wished I had 15 years ago. Back in the day, I was drowning in stress while I was focusing on my career, building my private practice and navigating a new marriage.  I was battling depression and anxiety through years of infertility and multiple losses, all the while my husband and I were growing further and further apart. 

 

Once my career was in a stable place and after the birth of our daughter, I thought we were in the clear and that everything would just fix itself with time 

But really what happened was that the effects of that distance lingered.  We were just able to use the distractions of a new baby, a successful business, and creating the family we dreamed of.

And with time, they never went away.  What actually happened was they compounded over time, creating a bigger gap between us.   Years went on and we found ourselves talking about logistics, managing schedules and arguing.

 

Our marriage was hanging by a thread.  

 

This is exactly the program I wish I had when I was going through this alone. 

As a woman with high standards and high expectations of myself, I was not settling for this kind of marriage.

Now my marriage is better than I could've imagined. 

We are each other's person, best friend, there's no one else we prefer to be with over each other.  Our bond is strong and we feel an emotional closeness like never before.  It's even better than it was in the beginning.  This is the work I wished I had 15 years ago 

And this is the work I've done with hundreds of clients over my 25 year career and I know it will work for you too.

This is for you if 

  • You’re reading blogs about how to revive the spark, but you still have no desire to be intimate with your partner no matter how hard you try.
  • You’ve read books on how to communicate and resolve conflict effectively but regardless of what you implement, no tool seems to work.  
  • You plan date nights out but neither of you enjoy them and you can feel the heaviness of the relationship even more.
  • You have dinner together at home every night after work, but you end up sitting in silence or just scrolling your phones.

I've helped hundreds of clients go from exactly where you're at right now to more in love than ever before.  As a psychotherapist practicing for 25 years, I know what works and what doesn’t.  And I can guide you to where you want to go without wasting a moment of your precious time.

This program will help you

  • Become teammates working side by side through the challenges of life sharing the mental and physical load so you’re no longer in it alone. 

  • Start to enjoy your sex life again with the man who knows you inside and out.

  • Revive your friendship leaving you with the feeling of “I can’t wait to spend time with you”  

  • Feel the love and closeness again that you remember being drawn to so magnetically when you first met.

  • Start to enjoy having dinner together again without distraction and model a marriage to your kids you are proud of.

Here's what we're going to do  

 

Different that traditional talk therapy (which I've done for over 2 decades), The Marriage Revival Collective is an experiential program where you put your energy toward removing obstacles and implementing solutions so that you can move forward.  Everything we do has a reason behind it and I've curated it so that you get exactly what you need to stay on track and accomplish your goals. 

 

We will take a deeper look into understanding the why behind where your marriage got off track. Right now you only have some general ideas of what caused your marriage to falter, but when you use my Root Clarity method, you’ll learn to understand what happened and why it happened so that you can fix it and prevent future occurrences.

 

When arguments arise, right now you're throwing spaghetti at the wall to see if anything sticks, but nothing is working.  I'm going to show you why and give you an entire strategy.  You'll learn to resolve old conflicts that are causing resentment and new conflicts so that you are not adding to the mounting pile of unresolved arguments using my Core Conflict Resolution Framework.

 

You know you want something better, but you can't figure out what exactly that is or how you yourself are going to make it happen.  We are going to Identify who you want to be so that you can have the life and marriage you dream of and then remove the blocks in the way of achieving that using my Subconscious Block Breakthrough Method.

  

You feel yourself getting triggered some days left and right and you've tried to calm yourself down, but no matter how intentional you become, you still feel the intensity and don't know why.  I'm going to show you how to delve into your personal history to uncover how the past experiences that are creeping into your marriage and negatively impacting how you relate to your husband using my Relational Roots Method.  

 

You're wondering what you're going to do with all the heaviness from past hurts because they are very much front and center.  You know they come to mind every single time there's a new issue. Inside this program, you'll get to heal old wounds of betrayal and abandonment so that you can create rock solid trust in yourself and your relationship using my Trust Restoration Method.

 

At this point your sex life has become monotonous, when it's even happening.  You've tried be more receptive, but you're just not feeling it these days.  We are going to revive the spark in your sex life and deepen your intimacy by uncovering what’s holding you back, learning new ways of connecting and removing barriers using my Intimacy Healing Guide.

 

And most of the time you feel like you have no idea what your partner is thinking.  You ask, but he doesn't give you much to work with.  I'm going to show you how to begin to understand your partner so you can meet him where he is.  And then you'll start to connect on a whole new level with the help of my Connection Deepener Blueprint.

 

Once you're work is complete you'll have a new relationship with yourself and your partner. while raising a family, advancing in your career and building an extraordinary life you are in love with.   You'll transform defensiveness into emotional intimacy and tension into more connection.  

Meet Carrie 

I'm so glad you are here and decided to take the first step in reviving your marriage to create a love that lasts a lifetime.  I want to assure you that you are in good hands with me.  

As a psychotherapist for the past 25 years, I've had the privilege and honor to work with over 1000 women, men and couples who put their trust in me to help them feel better about themselves, their relationships and the life they are living.  

I've dedicated my career to professional development and honing my expertise.  Following graduate school at New York University, I spent 15 years training in depth psychology and couples therapy.  I'm trained in a variety of couples approaches including Psychodynamic, Gottman, Developmental, and Emotionally Focused Therapy. I've spent a decade in case consultation studying the patterns and themes of my clients, diving deep into understanding their unconscious dynamics.   

Additionally, my personal experiences also run deep.  Married and divorced in my 20's and now celebrating 20 years of marriage with my current husband, it wasn't always easy for me.  I had to learn a lot about myself following my divorce in order to prepare myself for another relationship, knowing that I wanted this one to be forever.  

My husband and I have had our share of ups and downs; from 3 years of infertility, to job changes, building businesses, parent illness/death, and much more, we've worked through a lot together.  We also spent 5 years in marriage therapy to solidify our foundation and work through some real sticky points.  

And what I've put together inside the Marriage Revival Collective, is everything I wish I would have had and everything I know works for women in their marriage packaged in one program.  You won't need to fill in with marriage therapy or search for additional resources because I've designed this program so comprehensively in order to meet as many of your needs as possible. 

Should you have any questions about me, my training, or my experience or my qualifications, please don't hesitate to reach out to me directly.  I know how important it is when you are choosing someone to help you with one of your most valuable assets. 

(Pictured is my small, but mighty family - My husband Steven, our daughter Elayna, my mom Jean and our two fur babies Gus and Brooke.) 

The Vibe

 

You may be wondering why you should do this work in a group because there are a lot of parts of your life you are very private about.  You don't share a lot.  In fact, most wouldn't know that you're unhappy with aspects of your life.   

But when you are given the opportunity to connect with women in a safe, non-judgmental space where you can fully be yourself, talk about your struggles and release the shame you feel the work you do will be swift & efficient.  The momentum is wildly different in group settings vs. 1:1, which is why this is my preferred method for this type of work.

You'll get to share a space with women who are interested in the same thing - creating their extraordinary marriages, shedding layers of themselves they no longer need, releasing shame, and developing into the woman you know you're capable of becoming.  

Worried what others will think of you or how they'll see you if you expose yourself and your vulnerabilities?

Sharing is actually the antidote to shame.  As women, there's a lot we don't share because we are ashamed (or embarrassed), but when you expose the shame by sharing it, the shame can't fester.  You won't hide behind it.  And you'll feel liberated from it.  

This is a space for you (one I wished I could've had) where you get to fully be who you are without apology, own all parts of yourself, let you hair down and grow into the woman desire to be.   

And I can't wait to meet that woman!  

Are you ready?

Let's do this!! 

I am ready!

What's inside 

 

1. Portal of Workshops with deep dive exercises.  This is where you’ll learn HOW to do the personal growth & the couples work - updated monthly (Valued at $2000)

2. Twice Monthly Tribe Calls where you connect in real time with other women who also value growth, marriage, and community.  Together we'll workshop your new skills, deepen your insights and troubleshoot in the areas that need more attention. (Valued at $1000)

3. Monthly Themes broken into weekly action plans so you can stay in the zone of what you are working on, go deep and really integrate your new insights.(Valued at $1000)

4. Community Chat off of social media so that you can build and strengthen your bond, get support, work through sticky situations with a tribe of women who are on the same path. (Valued $1000)

5. Expert Guidance  where you'll be exposed to new ways of thinking. You'll no longer have to scour the internet for solutions and piece together your own roadmap. (Priceless) 

Total Value is $5000/month

 

Are you ready to give your self, your marriage and your life the upgrade it deserves and create a love that lasts a lifetime? 

 

When you decide to join us inside The Marriage Revival Collective, you'll commit for 4 months.  I've designed it this way so that you can get a complete experience and also benefit from the relationships you'll develop. Of course if you love it, you can continue. 

I know it can feel like a push-pull when it comes to investing in yourself.  From the time it takes out of your busy life to the financial resources it warrants, these decisions are big ones.  

And I remember every time I embarked on a big piece of work for myself.  I had many conversations with myself and my husband about where I'm going to "find" the time and how I plan to allocate our funds differently so that I could invest in myself and our marriage.  

And every time I took the leap, I've never regretted the decision to better myself, to go deeper, and to grow into the woman I've become today.  

I know it can be scary to tap into the unknown, but I hope you'll give yourself this opportunity for your own development.

And while the total value is $5000/month

I'm offering it to you with 2 investment options:

Monthly at $399/month for 4 months or save 10% by paying in full for 4 months at $1437 PIF.  And you'll be locked into this rate for 12 months should you continue.

Please note that this program is by application only.  Complete the application below so that we can ensure that it's the perfect fit.  Once I receive and review, I will contact you within 24 hours to set up a complementary consult zoom call so that we can meet face to face.  

Apply Here

Testimonial

"Carrie has turned our marriage around.  I was ready to file for divorce, but my partner begged me to give our marriage one more try.  Carrie made me feel safe, seen and completely understood.  She helped us work through the trust that was broken and I can honestly say that our marriage is better than it's ever been.  I'm so proud of our marriage."

 (To protect the privacy of my clients, all identifying details are kept confidential.)

Testimonial

"I felt like Carrie understood us and what we were dealing with from the beginning.  She was able to see what the issues were, what we needed to work and helped us accomplish what we needed in our marriage.  I loved how she structured things for us right from the beginning.  Knowing where we going was important to both of us."

(To protect the privacy of my clients, all identifying details are kept confidential)

Testimonial

"Carrie showed us what was possible when we were hopeless.  We really thought our marriage was over, but once we started working with her, it was clear that the impossible was going to be possible.  We had worked with other marriage therapists before, but it didn't help so we had lost all hope that anything could help us."

(To protect the privacy of my clients, all identifying details are kept confidential.)

Do you find yourself feeling isolated, on edge, at a loss for what to do next and just craving a deeper connection with your husband?
 
Maybe you feel shame for having these issues in your marriage, so you can’t talk about these things with anyone; not your Mom or even your best friends…
 
Well this space is where you finally feel SEEN in what’s happening alongside a community of women all doing the work to create the marriage of their dreams. 
 
I’m here to tell you that now you don’t have to be in this alone!
 
Connect with other women who are transforming their conversations and discovering deep connection and support in the Marriage Revival Collective.  This is where you are going to meet your tribe!


Will you join me?

 
 
Let’s come together to create the marriage you long for! The one you know you are meant for.  The one you have dreamed of having.  
 
And now that you know it won’t happen on its own.  You’ve seen that with your own eyes. The Marriage Revival Community  is exactly what you need.   So don’t let another day go by feeling lost, isolated, confused and hopeless in your marriage, when you don’t have to.    
 
You get to keep your family together and feel deep love in your marriage again

 

You're next

This could be your reality once you're inside the Marriage Revival Collective 

Yes! Let's do this!

This is your moment of truth.  And I know you're probably nervous about making your next move. 

 

With options like stay in an unhappy marriage and resign myself to that life or get divorced and break up my family it's easy to feel paralyzed.

 

This here is your chance to finally create the marriage that you've dreamed of having, the closeness you crave, the partnership you long for. 

 

You've got this and I've got you!  Let's do this!

 

Yes! Let's do this!